VICTOR COSMAS BLOG

Hey friends! I know that you would love to be at the level where the best people in the world are.  You would love to be the one doing positive exploits. Making headline news for great achievement.  You would certainly love to be the one who gets a few thousand snapshots each time you step out of your cool car, private jet or your entourage. Life at the top is one of the sweetest experiences you would love to have and keep for a lifetime.  Think about people of like-passion like you and I, such as Aliko Dangote , Bill Gate, Donald Trump, Mark Zukerberg and the others who made it to the top.  How on earth did they all get that far that the world would almost squint to see them in their almost-near-the-sun height? This is what I intend to address. The enemy of you attaining such a height is what I want to expose. It is called PROCRASTINATION . Procrastination from my definition is a conviction to take a bold step in the right direction but acting on seemi...

A common saying quotes 'show me your friend and I will tell you who you are' . The validity of this saying has not been wiped out by civilization itself. The truth remains that a person's friend or friends contributes a large percentage to his or her characters and in the decisions he makes, whether he knows it or not.  Therefore you need friends to get to the top and you also need friends to get down . This may sound a little or much controversial.  There are good friends and there are bad friends.  A good friend is that friend who wants you to prosper using a legitimate or positive method. He could go as far as teaching you or helping you to grasp concepts and ideas that could unleash you to your world and you could also be the one doing this for someone else .  My first ever job was got for me by a friend when I had the excuse to pick crime and say Jobs were scarce like most people do.  In order words he is interested in your success. Even the mo...

'The way I raised all these kids the man of these house doesn't know about it. He was too busy away' , a woman close to me said this.  I saw another heart breaking picture of a mum and her four out-of-this-world handsome boys. The woman who showed me her picture added 'Here is my friend, her husband a top officer in an enviable company in the country just left all of them to be on his own'.  Another shared how she went through terrible health conditions in which every part of her was affected 'I saw well over 40 doctors and all my husband did was play tennis. He never asked me once how I was faring' , she said.  These are just a little fraction out of the numerous other experiences that women have in every corner of the world. The big questions are;  What Value Has a Woman?   Was a woman created to perform below the pass mark in which their men counterparts operate?   Are they so insensitive that they should be left in a tiny cubicle of...